Comments on Possum's Place: Rejection Hurts More Than Any Word Could EVER Expr...

i am so sorry she is being this way.((((hugs)))

2008-06-07T17:01:00.000+10:00

i am so sorry she is being this way.

((((hugs)))

I wish there was a way to take away the pain and h...

2008-05-26T14:32:00.000+10:00

I wish there was a way to take away the pain and hurt. Can only send you a million hugs and remind you what a wonderful, amazing fabulous person you are. Love ya Poss.. xx

(((POSS)))You are so right, but that doesn't help ...

2008-05-26T14:06:00.000+10:00

(((POSS)))

You are so right, but that doesn't help much, does it?

I'm sorry you're hurting, no one deserves that--especially YOU! xx

I'm sorry (((Possum))) I don't know what else to s...

2008-05-22T13:47:00.000+10:00

I'm sorry (((Possum))) I don't know what else to say. I hope that she will be able to come out of her pain soon and accept you lovingly into her life.

((((((((((Possum))))))))))))You're right, there re...

2008-05-21T01:04:00.000+10:00

((((((((((Possum))))))))))))

You're right, there really are no words to express it.
I'm thinking of you sweetheart and sending good energy your way.

(((((((Possum)))))))))

2008-05-18T18:28:00.000+10:00

(((((((Possum)))))))))

hey "sis" and I say that because your post is a ca...

2008-05-16T12:32:00.000+10:00

hey "sis" and I say that because your post is a carbon copy almost as my story.

I have recently reconnected with my Half sister ( that was raised by my birth mom) we are talking via emails.

she is has a mom -daughter relationship with my real mom..who still to this day ..now 18 years after our reunion..is not acknowledging me at all ..even though ...I am now basically the age

Oh Poss (((((HUGS)))))) I am so sorry you are hurt...

2008-05-13T00:03:00.000+10:00

Oh Poss (((((HUGS)))))) I am so sorry you are hurting so much
But I do completely understand.
((((((((((((POSS))))))))))))

{{{{Poss}}}}}I'm so sorry you are hurting. You des...

2008-05-11T13:29:00.000+10:00

{{{{Poss}}}}}

I'm so sorry you are hurting. You deserve so much better. You are a wonderful, beautiful person! Sending love and hugs xoxo

Oh, Possum, this is so hard. I hope and pray your...

2008-05-10T11:53:00.000+10:00

Oh, Possum, this is so hard. I hope and pray your mother is able to get past her fear, soon. Sending good thoughts and (((hugs))).

It is NOT You...Jxx

2008-05-10T11:24:00.000+10:00

It is NOT You...Jxx

Sweetest Possum, I wish I knew what to say to make...

2008-05-10T08:14:00.000+10:00

Sweetest Possum, I wish I knew what to say to make it all better. Nothing hurts an adoptee more than further rejection.

Your mother's life would be so much richer with you in it...
I'm sorry, words fail me right now.

Great Big Hugs to you.

(((Poss)))I've been there too, as you know. It hu...

2008-05-08T11:57:00.000+10:00

(((Poss)))

I've been there too, as you know. It hurts like a motherfucker.

I think of you often and hope your mother chooses to open her eyes.

She doesn't know what she's missing...

xo
irisheyes

You know that I know exactly what you mean.I wish ...

2008-05-07T11:56:00.000+10:00

You know that I know exactly what you mean.

I wish I could get their collective heads and bagn some sense into them.

The pain is immense, and it does hurt - off the richter scale of hurt.

For what it's worth, we love you, and will forever hold out hope that she comes around.

((((((((Possum))))))))

I'm sorry, Possum. hugs

2008-05-06T20:27:00.000+10:00

I'm sorry, Possum. *hugs*

OH POSS. I've been there. I am "fully" reunited ...

2008-05-06T14:51:00.000+10:00

OH POSS. I've been there. I am "fully" reunited with both of my parents and I am still there sometimes. The fear of rejection holds like a mother f&$#@%.

It hurts in theory, in reality, in everyday application, when we try to ignore it, when it smacks us in our faces... JEZUS Christ. If your mom only knew YOU, there would simply be no way you would be anywhere but in her arms.
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Oh, Poss... I wish I knew what to say. You're exa...

2008-05-06T11:38:00.000+10:00

Oh, Poss... I wish I knew what to say. You're exactly right that it's fear, her fear, and that it's NOT YOU AT ALL.

Hugs from a long ways away.

(((((Possum)))))